Stem Cell Transplant Excitement?


“Your son is going to have a stem cell transplant and they have a donor? That is so great! You must be so excited!” someone said to me.

It is a wonderful thing that transplant is an option for him and that they have found a good donor. We are hopeful. But excited? No. I am not excited. Horrified would be a better term to describe my emotions. If it were a new heart or new lungs or a kidney, there might be reason to feel excited. But stem cell transplant is different. It is

Leukemia Relapse! – How it happened


On Wednesday, June 11, we went up to the mountains for a family retreat. Thursday, all was normal. Derek played freeze tag and was active and energetic. Mid day on Thursday, I learned via text message that the son of a friend of mine had relapsed his leukemia. I was shocked and saddened, imagining what it must be like to face such news. 

Friday morning, June 13, Derek woke up saying his neck hurt a lot. I thought perhaps he had slept wrong in the motor home or was sore from playing tag the evening before. It hurt badly enough that he wanted Tylenol, which I gave him after breakfast. It did not seem to help much and the pain continued throughout the day. After lunch I gave him more Tylenol and again it didn’t seem to do much. He was not interested in playing tag and sat with me on the sidelines. I massaged it gently, but it didn’t seem to help.

During the Friday evening meeting, Derek felt a little warm, and by the end of the meeting, it was quite obvious he was running a fever.  We went to the motor home and took his temperature. It was 101.2. We were concerned it could be viral meningitis, and I called Derek’s doctor. She said to bring him in right away. So I collected our things and